Ella Patten
MS, CCC-SLP
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Making mealtimes safe, and then making them calm.
Our specially trained therapists work with children to enhance their ability to eat safely, comfortably and effectively.

Feeding is one of the most complex things a young child does. It involves the coordination of dozens of muscles, an intact swallow, the sensory tolerance to accept a texture and a smell, the postural stability to sit upright, and enough calm to be willing. A difficulty in any one of those areas can make eating hard, and from the outside they can look identical at the dinner table.
Our first job is working out which of them is actually the problem. A child who gags on lumps because of sensory sensitivity needs a different plan than a child who gags because they cannot manage the texture with their tongue, and both differ from a child who is not swallowing safely. Treating the wrong one wastes months and can make a child more resistant.
This is why we start with a careful evaluation rather than with a strategy. When there is any question about swallowing safety, we coordinate directly with your child’s physician, and we will recommend further medical assessment when that is the right call rather than working around it.
Most of the children we see for this are toddlers and preschoolers. Feeding therapy for toddlers looks different from what parents picture: less mealtime and more play, and often running alongside speech and language therapy, because the same muscles and frequently the same evaluation are involved.
Most young children go through a phase of narrow preferences, and most of it resolves. What concerns us is a pattern that is getting narrower over time, a child whose accepted foods number in the single digits, distress that goes beyond refusal, or growth that is falling off. Those are worth assessing rather than waiting out.
We are deliberate about not turning meals into a battle. Families who arrive here have usually tried pressure, rewards and negotiation, often on well-meaning advice, and have found the situation getting worse. Pressure at the table reliably increases refusal in children who are struggling. A large part of early feeding therapy is lowering the temperature at home so a child can be curious about food again.
Reasons families come to us for feeding support:
We support children whose feeding difficulties occur alone and children whose difficulties relate to:
This list is not exhaustive and nothing on it is a diagnosis. If something here sounds like your child, an evaluation is the way to find out what is actually going on.
Feeding sessions move at the pace the child can tolerate, which is often slower than parents expect at first. That pacing is deliberate and it is usually why progress holds.
For a child who has learned to fear food, early sessions may involve no eating at all. Tolerating a food nearby, touching it, or exploring it is real progress and the necessary first step.
Your therapist moves gradually through steps of interaction with a food, from proximity to touch to taste, never skipping ahead past what a child can manage.
Where the difficulty is skill rather than tolerance, sessions build the specific chewing, tongue and lip movement a food requires.
Your therapist works with you on how meals run at home, including seating, timing, what is served and how the family responds, because that is where most of the eating happens.
Our feeding therapy is delivered by licensed clinicians with additional training specific to pediatric feeding:
This page is not a diagnosis and nothing on it is medical advice. If something here sounds like your child, an evaluation is how you find out what is actually going on.
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The useful signals are direction and distress. A typical picky eater has a limited but stable list and will eventually try new things under low pressure. A child who needs support usually has a list that is shrinking, shows real distress rather than reluctance, refuses whole textures, or is not growing as expected. Our blog post on picky eating versus a feeding disorder goes through this in more detail.
For a child with a genuine feeding difficulty, mandatory bites usually increase refusal and raise the anxiety around meals. We generally work in the opposite direction, removing pressure first so that curiosity has room to return. Your therapist will give you an approach specific to your child.
Yes, and this work is done in close coordination with your child's medical team. The pace is set by safety and by your child's tolerance, and progress is often gradual. We will be honest with you about what a realistic timeline looks like.
Instrumental swallow studies are performed in a medical facility rather than here. If your child's evaluation raises a concern about swallowing safety, we will tell you directly and coordinate with your physician so the right assessment happens.
It can be either, and sometimes both. Speech-language pathologists bring expertise in the oral motor and swallowing side, occupational therapists bring expertise in sensory tolerance and positioning. We assign the clinician who fits your child's profile, and the two disciplines coordinate when a child needs both.
Feeding work is usually slower than families hope. Children with sensory-based avoidance often work for many months, because the progress that lasts is built gradually. We will show you the small steps so you can see movement even when the food list has not changed yet.
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